Now I know that this is going to be one topic that's going to either hit a lot of people the wrong way, or it's going to do what it needs to do in the first place, now I'm not talking about father's that will actually stick around when the mothers are pregnant, but the ones that wont stick around. Those are the ones that I'm thinking of as complete idiots, namely for getting the girl pregnant and then taking off never to be heard from again.
Now this weekend, my wife came down to visit me, and this was the one topic that I kept thinking about off and on when it came to what's happened to her over the years, and the fact of the matter is that I've been with her through all of the 13 years that her and I have been married, and even though we weren't together for part of those 13 years, I was still with her in some way, always helping her out no matter what it took. Now all of the guys that she's been with, for the ones that have gotten her pregnant and then taken off, those are the jackasses that I'm talking about. I love my wife and will till my dying day and far beyond that as well. However you don't go and leave a girl all because she's fulfilled something that you wanted, and that's namely just the screwing that you wanted in the first place, sorry but not only is that not right, you have an obligation to not only be there for the child, but to also help support that child in the first place once that child is born.
Now despite the fact that I personally can't have children, I do feel very strongly about this and always will, and nothing is ever going to change that. I've seen mothers that have had to support their children all on their own because not only could the father never been found, but the deadbeat contested the child in the first place (that's one of the main reasons that DNA tests were created in the first place these days, besides finding the right criminal that did the deed in the first place), and in the end created a very longed out court battle that always ends with the father having to pay support that he should have been paying right at the start to begin with.
Now I don't know what my wife is going to think of this posting, but for all the jackasses that had been with her and then left, they should be found and made to pay child support period, or failing that get their asses locked up and then forced to pay the support in the end after all. Yes I'm very passionate about this topic, and there needs to be more awareness when it comes to this, however I don't know if there is any out there right now (either a web site or Facebook page) that one could be able to go to in support of this topic.
Beyond that this weekend was something that I will always love, remember and cherish forever and honestly wish that it had never ended at all, however it did and I figured that I would blog about this topic that I feel very passionate about. If anyone has anything to say about it, please post a comment to the blog, after all this is one topic that will never go away no matter how much we want it to end.
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Felix Sanchez
Sign Dancer, Liberty Tax Fresno, CA
Alhambra High School
Class of '97
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